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2/26/2016

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Systematic Dismantlement

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Power...we all desire the ability to cause or prevent action effectively. Power is the ability to control people and events. This noun can be used synchronously for good or evil. Throughout the course of life there will be occurrences that present in which decisions we make will effect the lives of others. The methodical response be it positive or negative will determine if one can govern such power.  

Systematic Dismantlement
Systems are a set of principles or procedures according to which something is done; an organized scheme or method. Systems are very necessary, however, there are instances in which systems can be utilized iniquitously. In this world fallacies are prevalent in which actions are put into place as a result.  In some cases, the manipulation of a specific system to gain desired results is adjured.

Ebb And Flow
Ebb And Flow is a decline and increase resulting in constant fluctuation, such as life. There will be times when life seem unfair, and the illusion that evil has prevailed is just that, an illusion. This is the decline period of "Ebb and Flow". More importantly, there is a higher power working harmoniously in the backdrop of subjugation. Propelled stones equate to propelled pebbles, thus, the constraint and potency of the attack is futile and impotent. 

Yin and Yang
The principle of Yin and Yang is a fundamental Chinese philosophy in which the word Yin represents the "Shady Side", and Yang represents the "Sunny Side". Which side do you represent? Is there a negative connotation associated with your very being? Are you genuine? Is your life progressing the way you see fit? Are you respected throughout the community? Are you a trailblazer? Do you view the glass as half empty versus half full? Are you the Author of confusion?  

​It's Not "IF", it's "WHEN"...

Camaraderie is the route to go! It's amazing to surmise the amount of people that empower me. It's important that their trust is valued fervently, and I continue to respect their position in this world. This is when the conveyance of POWER is heightened, magnified, and illuminates through all you do! POWER...never abuse it. it's not "IF" you'll lose it, it's "WHEN" you will lose it. 

Be Amazing,
​Makeisha D. Barnes

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Blended...

2/14/2016

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Mom...

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Preface
Step-families are very prevalent in the united states, in fact, 40% of married couples with children are step-couples (Karney, Garvan, & Thomas, 2003). Moreover, one-third of all weddings in America today form step-families. 

One Random Day
It was a normal day, so I thought! I gathered my keys, locked the truck, and approached the sign-out sheet for my Stepson. I can hear cheerful sounds from the other children in aftercare as they were playing board games, and enjoying their snacks! I gestured to my Stepson by waiving my hand that it was time to pack his belongings and head out. As I turned to exit the building I can hear my Stepson saying "That's my Mom". I nearly fainted! I didn't know how to process what I heard.
 
Happenstance?
Ironically, a similar situation transpired between my eldest stepson and I. We're all just hanging out, and he completed his statement with "Mom". At this point, I was convinced that both boys had given me a new title. 

Prayer And Supplication
I prayed to God for guidance, and without doubt, clarity was given. I have no objection with being referred to as "Mom". For the boys, it's a term of endearment, affection, and sentiment. It's starting to feel normal, and I always smile and chuckle as it makes Zoe (my biological daughter) extremely jealous! When she feels this way, I advise her to reflect on advice given to our family a few years ago, "You can always make more love". 

Attributes...
Everyday, the goal is to offer my love to all (5) of our children. Non-biased, genuine LoVe! I try to understand their perspective, and incorporate their point of view in family decisions. It's important that I keep a great sense of humor, and stay balanced for the sake of our family keeping a positive vibe. Informing the kids about their progress, and providing incentives for their hard work is something they value.  

At A Glance, Are You:
  • Genuine?
  • Supportive?
  • A Great Listener?
  • Accepting?
  • Interested?
  • Honest?
  • Stable?
  • Patient?
  • A Child Advocate?
To conclude, I embrace what I've been blessed with. I thank God for trusting me, and I won't ever let them down. 

Signing Off,
Makeisha
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Welcome Back! 

1/29/2016

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Find Your Happy Place....

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Welcome back! In this weeks blog, we are going to discuss finding your Happy Place, and limiting the impact of hardships we will inevitably face in life.

Life is a balancing act in which we must find ways to decompress, otherwise, you will have some sort of melting point! Knowing this, we must practice good behavior to limit the amount of trials we will face in life. One can never escape hardship, but one can definitely limit the impact. It's like riding a bike! Throughout the process of learning how to ride a bike there are surely bumps and bruises, however, protective gear limits the impact and severity of sustained injuries.

Comparatively, good behavior will limit the impact of trials we face throughout life, thus, favorable outcomes will manifest despite what meets the eye! Good behavior is synonymous with practicing good karma, it's important to always exude positive energy. Those with "Em-path-ic Ability" can sense people with negative energy immediately. For those who do not have "Em-path-ic Ability", simply evaluate the relationships in your life. If a person has a track record of manipulation, insecurity, and unhappiness BEWARE, they will definitely halt progress in your life.

Tactics can include :
  • Using others as pawns to maintain a spotless appearance. 
  • Sabotage Relationships.
  • The use of Scapegoats to shift guilt or shame. 
  • Make use of "The Cat's Paw" (A person who is used by another, typically to carry out an unpleasant or dangerous task.)
Be that as it may, you must find a way to retreat, and disengage. Otherwise, precious time will be lost, and throw you off pivot from life goals and objectives. In a worst case scenario, one can be caught in their web, and never find a way out. I caution you to retreat, and disengage from the unhappy. 

Lastly, plan all the way to the end. Associate with those that are happy, and headed on the same trajectory. If you are the smartest person in your social circle, how can you learn and grow?

​As a final point, drink coffee, light candles, and be amazing! 

Signing Off,
Makeisha

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1/19/2016

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There's nothing like hanging out on your favorite sofa eating russell stover coconut clusters. Nom, nom, nom...I digress! Anywho, today is Tuesday, January 19, 2016 and I'm curious. Have you met your expectation for the new year thus far? My personal goal is to plant a new seed everyday to increase, and expedite some of my personal goals. So far, so good! I know this will be an amazing year as we will be celebrating (3) graduations. Hmm, let's see, my son is graduating from high school, my husband's commencement program is to follow, and I'll wrap up the celebrations as I'll be graduating from Graduate School! I plan to go all the way, as I'll be enrolling in a Doctoral Program immediately after grad school. In two years I'll be Dr. Makeisha D. Barnes,b.a.e.n.,m.a.a.e.t.....Yes, I will sign my name as such, lol! Miguel and I have worked diligently to set the standard for our children, our choices early on in life halted progress, however, we have found our way! I will wrap up my first blog post by sharing FuN FaCtoiDs to adopt if you wish to make the journey a little sweeter! Be Amazing!
  • ​Remain Positive In Every Situation.
  • Negative Intentions Do Not Prevail.
  • Be Honest, Your Energy is Transparent.
  • The Righteous Win | Good Intentions = Positive Outcomes.
  • Life is not about you, It's always about someone else.   
  • Stay clear of Energy Drainers (Parasitic People). 
  • Always stand up for what you believe in, be Passionate.
  • Be Mastery in all that you do.
Please feel free to add to the list, if it's appropriate, I'll Share! Have a Fabulous Night, and always remember, Be Amazing! 
​
-Makeisha

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    ​Author

    Makeisha D. Barnes, B.A.E.N. is a creative, witty protective mother of 5 who view life as an adventure! Philanthropy is her passion, and believe children are "little people" with big brains! Consequently, her children are given a platform to express themselves respectfully, as makeisha Believes this will prepare them for real Life encounters! Husband Miguel, is a Wonderful Father and Husband to Makeisha and Kids! The children adore him as he loves to lecture, and is very passionate about creating generational wealth, and overseeing the overall success of the family.

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