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2/14/2016

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Mom...

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Preface
Step-families are very prevalent in the united states, in fact, 40% of married couples with children are step-couples (Karney, Garvan, & Thomas, 2003). Moreover, one-third of all weddings in America today form step-families. 

One Random Day
It was a normal day, so I thought! I gathered my keys, locked the truck, and approached the sign-out sheet for my Stepson. I can hear cheerful sounds from the other children in aftercare as they were playing board games, and enjoying their snacks! I gestured to my Stepson by waiving my hand that it was time to pack his belongings and head out. As I turned to exit the building I can hear my Stepson saying "That's my Mom". I nearly fainted! I didn't know how to process what I heard.
 
Happenstance?
Ironically, a similar situation transpired between my eldest stepson and I. We're all just hanging out, and he completed his statement with "Mom". At this point, I was convinced that both boys had given me a new title. 

Prayer And Supplication
I prayed to God for guidance, and without doubt, clarity was given. I have no objection with being referred to as "Mom". For the boys, it's a term of endearment, affection, and sentiment. It's starting to feel normal, and I always smile and chuckle as it makes Zoe (my biological daughter) extremely jealous! When she feels this way, I advise her to reflect on advice given to our family a few years ago, "You can always make more love". 

Attributes...
Everyday, the goal is to offer my love to all (5) of our children. Non-biased, genuine LoVe! I try to understand their perspective, and incorporate their point of view in family decisions. It's important that I keep a great sense of humor, and stay balanced for the sake of our family keeping a positive vibe. Informing the kids about their progress, and providing incentives for their hard work is something they value.  

At A Glance, Are You:
  • Genuine?
  • Supportive?
  • A Great Listener?
  • Accepting?
  • Interested?
  • Honest?
  • Stable?
  • Patient?
  • A Child Advocate?
To conclude, I embrace what I've been blessed with. I thank God for trusting me, and I won't ever let them down. 

Signing Off,
Makeisha
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    Makeisha D. Barnes, B.A.E.N. is a creative, witty protective mother of 5 who view life as an adventure! Philanthropy is her passion, and believe children are "little people" with big brains! Consequently, her children are given a platform to express themselves respectfully, as makeisha Believes this will prepare them for real Life encounters! Husband Miguel, is a Wonderful Father and Husband to Makeisha and Kids! The children adore him as he loves to lecture, and is very passionate about creating generational wealth, and overseeing the overall success of the family.

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